Findom Show #008: Are You Worried About AI Findommes?

Does AI worry you? I can ask this question of my fellow Domme’s and get some really interesting responses. When I asked a Findom that I met on social media, are you worried about AI, she chuckled and said, “not at all. The good subs can spot that shit from a mile away, and they don’t fall for it.” Another Findom that I was communicating with in a little private forum area, when I asked her, are you worried about AI, she said, “yes, it’s everywhere, it’s flooding the market, it’s making it harder to stand out.”

Isn’t it interesting, the 2 different responses? My guess, my instinct is that the Domme who’s not worried is absolutely correct. Her vibe is so real and so powerful, all the AI bullshit in the world is never going to get in the way of a sub finding her, connecting with her, and serving her. And on the flip side, the other Domme who is worried – her worries are founded.

Her insecurity about what’s happening outside of her is going to block her from connecting with subs that would joyfully serve.

This is, this is my instinct. This is my theory. This is my hypothesis that what you worry about Sends out vibes in the universe in a way. If you ask me the question, am I worried about AI? No. I’m curious about whether subs are falling for AI. But if a sub falls for an AI Domme, if, and by AI Domme, I mean someone out there who has created social platforms and pay links entirely with AI-generated imagery, AI-generated text… if someone is doing that and a sub finds that and responds to it and sends that person behind the AI money, good for them.

It doesn’t have fuck all to do with me. It doesn’t block my abundance because the person – the sub – who felt motivated by the AI Domme, they weren’t looking for me. They weren’t seeking this vibe. They were seeking something predictable. Synthetic. If you are seeking to serve a mature, confident, no bullshit Domme, if you are seeking a true connection, if you are craving someone that you can build a devotion for, you, you might find me and feel drawn to me and all the AI Domme bullshit flooding the interwebs can’t stop that. I feel the truth of that in my spirit, in my flesh.

I feel it pulsing through me with complete confidence. AI does not worry me. Now, in a perfect world, do I wish it didn’t exist? Kinda. It, it’s mildly disturbing. And, and here’s where subs who are worried about— we’ve talked about how is, is a Domme worried about AI.

Um, when you’re a submissive, when you are a Finsub, how do you feel about the potential that you are sending to an AI Domme? Are you at all concerned that the imagery and the words that motivated you to send is technically developed? AI generated? Whether it came out of ChatGPT or Claude or something like GPTease, are you at all concerned that you got motivated, activated, triggered all the way to a send by a synthetic message? A synthetic, not really there Findomme? Are you concerned about that?

And if you are, what steps do you take to try to peer behind the curtain? I’m very curious about that. If you have ever, quote, fallen for an AI Domme and then realized it later, how did you feel knowing it’s the— how did you feel about being financially catfished? It’s interesting.

You know, I come into this space as the real me. You guys see my images, you see my videos. I do wear a mask. I’m not, I’m not, um, looking to blend my vanilla life with my spicy life on the internets, but you know I am who I am. You know I am mature, BBW, bossy, big soft titties. You don’t have to— you don’t have to wonder, is Mari real? You know I’m real. I’m not against someone using model photos to represent themselves. I’m not against someone using AI generation to represent themselves in some way.

I genuinely, I genuinely hope that even if visually you hide yourself, that the words that get spoken, I hope they’re your own. I hope they, I hope they represent your kink, your fetish, your wants, your desires, if you are operating in Findom and Fendomme. But I know sometimes it’s not. There are lots of persona-driven things out there. In the Femdom world, in the, in the world of simply playing with a man around erotic topics to generate abundance, I operate a couple of personas, but they are not Findommes. I do not promote them out in the world as Findommes, because when I’m in that role, I just want to be me.

Back to subs, back to the, to the men and women who identify as a Finsub. Do you suspect that you have sent to an AI Domme? Do you suspect that you have felt turned on by the visual representation of some hot, sassy, sexy, beautiful dominatrix who snapped her fingers and took your money? Do you suspect that that’s not at all the human who cashed that check? Is it disturbing to think that it might be a man who falsified the whole thing? With AI, is it, is it cringy to imagine that you thought you were sending money to worship a sexy Goddess, a sexy MILF, and in truth you were sending it to a nerdy little geek over in Turkey?

I don’t mean to plant fear in Finsub’s minds, but do you take steps? And, and here’s the thing again, if some nerdy little geek in a windowless basement has figured out some way to AI generate a financial dominatrix and then create compelling, sexy content that literally motivates Finsubs to send them money… well, way to go! Who the fuck am I to tsk tsk your hustle?

But Finsubs, how do you feel about the reality that that is happening? Oh God, I would love to hear from you about this. If you have ever been— have you ever realized you were catfished by an AI Domme, I’d love to hear your story.

If you are Running an AI Domme account that’s working, and you are not who you visually represent yourself to be, and you would like to anonymously come on and talk about it. Fuck yeah! I am so curious about it. Just to circle back.

To how I opened this up, are you worried about AI in financial domination circles? I am not worried about it. I don’t love it, but in some cases, I respect it. And if there’s any little element of concern for me, it’s only for the sake of the sub that’s looking for something real and finding something fake.

Thank you for spending a little time with me. Thank you for listening. Findomshow.com for show notes. If you enjoy this podcast, if you want to support and encourage me, there’s a link to my throne on the website at findomshow.com. You can send me a little something something if you’re feeling that urge.

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