Findom Show #003: Important Message For Fantasy Finsubs

The Findom Show Episode #003 Transcript

For some men, financial domination is purely a fantasy. The idea of being financially manipulated, fucked, even utterly destroyed is intoxicating. The thought of a powerful woman winding themselves around you till you don’t know which way is up and draining you dollar by dollar makes the cock stiffen. It makes the balls tighten. It’s so exciting. And some of y’ all financial domination fantasy boys, well, that’s all you’ll ever be because it’s the idea that gets you excited, not the reality. And listen, you’re listening to a podcast. If you want to close your eyes and imagine being financially and not actually be financially fucked up.

And if that gets you off, that’s the power of your imagination, my friend. That’s the power of fantasy. And there is not a thing wrong with it if that’s what works for you. I lean away from judgment whenever possible. But let me tell you, when a fantasy fin sub crosses wires with me and gets his little broke ass blocked for me, financial domination is not more exciting in direct relationship to the amount of money given. It’s commensurate with the sacrifice given. So, you know, for example, I have a blue collar piggy. There are some months where he might only come up off of $50 once and then it’ll be weeks before I hear from him again.

And then there might be another day where, you know, he does much better. There are times when he’s feeling extremely motivated, works extra hours, goes to the blood bank, does what it takes to please me. That’s sacrifice. That’s hot. That turns me on. But I just don’t want anyone to hear this and think, oh well, findoms, they only care about the men who give thousands of dollars. That’s just not true of me. Now, we are going to be meeting a lot of different doms here on this podcast.

I have an open call for guests, doms and subs who would love to come talk with me about the kinks and fetish around money. So I’m sure at some point we’ll talk to a woman who will say, I’m sorry, but if you don’t have four figure sons, I don’t have any attention for you. I don’t judge that. Good for her. Whatever makes the dynamic rock for both of them I’m in favor of. But I want to talk about these fantasy fin subs. I want to talk to the fantasy fins up right now. You’re the guy who popped into my text this morning.

In this particular case, we’re talking about the night flirt platform. So when I say he Popped into my chat. He’s paying per volley, a very tiny amount. $1.49 per volley is the basic rate to just send me a message and get a message back. So he reaches out to me and he says, I’m going to read it verbatim. I think every man should have his wallet fucked and every woman should fuck a wallet by the age of 21. Now, he and I have played some very small findom games in the past. Nothing consistent.

He is not my sub. He is. He’s an itch scratcher and that’s fine. I think we played a little raise the rate once and I think one time he came up off of a couple of small sends in addition to the chat interaction price. And so when he came to me with that, I said, well, first of all, I said, of course, you’re right. And. And I said, is your craving real? And I made a very small tribute request on the night flirt platform in the chat. You can say, hey, pay me.

It is a request. It comes through as a tribute request. And they don’t have to pay it to continue to chat with you, but if they do pay it, you see it immediately. In the chat I saw nine minutes later, he sent a message that made me laugh out loud. He said, I feel like it needs to be more than money to be dominated. You know, I don’t know how to put it. And listen, financial fin sub, fantasy boys. I do know in real life domination is about more than money.

It is about presence, energy, power, exchange. It can be quite intense. I said, of course, but this space, this is a virtual space. This is a platform. You walked up and said, I want to be financially fucked. So you just made it about money. Money is the primary dynamic and you know it. And so he said, yeah, I do, but I need to be dominated mentally too.

Listen, he has a craving and he’s communicating it. I said his name. I won’t say his name here. I said, are you beating yourself against a brick wall again? The answer is yes, go on, keep at it as long as you need to or try something else. And I demanded more money. And silence. Here’s the thing I know full well he’s sitting over there fat, thumbing his messages with one hand and fist his cock with the other hand, enjoying the interaction, loving the feel of. Of me demanding his money, loving the feel of a dominant woman, not taking any shit.

However, he’s not actually offensive. We know this because he has not actually fulfilled my demands. And they are small demands. Every drained session is different sometimes I drain $10 at a time. Sometimes I up the demands tribute by tribute. I don’t know what I’m going to feel like doing until I feel it. I looked at the chat, I watched for several minutes while he said nothing, paid nothing, and I asked myself, is this a satisfactory engagement for me? The, the pretty quick answer was no. Do I want to give him any more energy? The answer no.

It’s really up to him. Unless he messages me again, there’s not another penny in the experience for me. If I keep sending him messages and he hasn’t messaged me, I’m not earning from those messages. So he gets buckus from me. And I waited like another five minutes and then I sent him this message. I said, listen or not. But when a man says he wants to be then doesn’t pay. It’s pathetic.

Boring. That’s the key word here. I know men love to be called pathetic. But when I call you boring baby, your cock should shrivel and your balls should slip up inside your body because boring is the kiss of fucking death. I said, do better with the next dom you try. And then I blocked him. And that block made me smile because there’s not a fucking thing he can do about it. Now.

He cannot message me, he cannot email me, he cannot tribute me, he cannot buy an audio, he cannot call me. He is cut the off. And maybe that power play is what gave him the ultimate turn on and maybe that’s what helped him finish off jerking his little dick. And if so, good for him. Poor broke baby, good for you. But listen, if you are a fantasy fin sub, if the idea turns you on, well, enjoy listening to this podcast, enjoy the fantasy. But baby, don’t bring it to me. Don’t waste your breath, don’t waste my time.

It’s boring. Now let’s compare and contrast this fucking loser to the delightful good boy that messaged me yesterday morning. Yesterday morning a true sub reaches out to me and says. Cuckolding me while raising the rate and taking other calls is so hot. That’s a favorite dynamic between us. I’ll get on a phone call with someone who’s paying for my attention and he’ll sit in chat and he’ll send me messages and I’ll send little, little one word responses and. And he just loves it. I’ll raise the rate on our chat interactions until he’s paying $10 per volley.

Just to say I’m still watching, I’m still waiting. So I’m on my call with somebody making money and he’s paying to be virtually ignored. It scratches his fin cock kink in the most incredible way. But we played for 20 minutes max and he sent me over $200. Not his highest drain, in fact. I think we would have went farther, but we were interrupted by my plans for the day. If you are a fin sub, you pay. If you are a fin sub, you send.

If you are a fin sub, you do what you’re told. You do not say, with one breath, I want to be fucked, I want to be ruined. And then with the next breath, oh, but I don’t want to send you. It’s boring now. To each his own. As I’ve said. If you’re a fantasy fin cook, I hope you’ve got your hand in your underwear right now. I hope you’re jerking off thinking about how fucking amazing it would be if I actually fucked you out of all your money.

But you and I both know that you’re too much of a chicken shit to go for it. So go ahead, keep listening. You, you have permission. Listen like, share, comment, spread the word, Adore me. Fantasize from afar. But you’re not going to get any tension from me. We call that a parasocial relationship in these here parts, and for some that’s enough. But for the man for whom it is not and never will be enough to fantasize about it, well then, baby, pay me.

Until next time.